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    As she was lying there feeling numb and ready to begin the procedure, her oral surgeon started by saying, “this will feel a bit like I am ripping your head off."
     
    This Will Feel Like I’m Ripping Your Head Off
    Dr. Joe McEnhill

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    Language can be romantic, evocative, and flowery, or it can be brutal, ugly, and sometimes terrifying. It can give someone butterflies or lead to utter devastation and abject misery. One’s use of language can give patients an impression of an approachable and trustworthy person or a cold and arrogant clinician. Your choice of words can close a treatment plan, or you may never see that patient again. Naturally, this translates into the bottom line of your business and so it’s worth paying attention to the way we communicate with patients.

    As dentists we invest a lot of time, money and energy developing skills and use a language that can mystify our patients. And it’s easy to speak jargon! How many times have we seen patient’s eyes begin to glaze over or they turn around to the dental nurse and asks them what they think? It is, of course, important to make a connection with a patient on their first visit. Establishing rapport goes hand in hand with trust and is of paramount importance if you hope your patient will accept your proposal. It shouldn’t be a sales pitch on fixing teeth if you hope to close the deal! Who gets excited about the prospect of getting nice new composite fillings? The patient is buying the result, not the treatment which is an important distinction.

    You cannot underestimate the value of spending a few moments talking to the person in front of you. Perhaps avoid viewing them as your next cash cow, or a method to pay for your family vacation. Finding out a few pertinent facts about Fred or Sue helps them engage with you. How many kids have they got or what interests do they have? Then, importantly, write this on their notes to remind you for the next time. From the minute they are out the door, that pertinent fact I just learned has departed out my other ear! Imagine the legend you will be when in six months you ask Roger how he got on at his cup final. Some people are brilliant at remembering these little details, but I need prompting. The psychology of a person plays a large part, and we can talk about neuro-linguistic programming, or Freud’s psychoanalytical theories. But whilst understanding a person’s mind can be of value, simply being nice and having empathy goes a long way too.


    I remember my wife’s bridesmaid recounting a story of her visit to the oral surgeon to get her wisdom teeth removed. I remember her anecdote being both horrific and hilarious in equal measure. As she was lying there feeling numb and ready to begin the procedure, her oral surgeon started by saying, “this will feel a bit like I am ripping your head off.” Perhaps there was an element of poetic license on the part of my friend, but she was never one for exaggeration. It is jaw dropping really. On what planet would this be considered an appropriate way to put anyone at ease, but it did make me laugh. I do sometimes enjoy schadenfreude, don’t judge!


    I really do not think that such dramatic and inflammatory language should ever be used if you are hoping to have a relaxed cooperative patient. I could imagine a few making a run for it if they were told this! It is a rare patient who is not apprehensive in some form or fashion at the prospect of a dental extraction, never mind a wisdom tooth. So, I will always begin by “gently wobbling the tooth to check movement and anesthesia. You will feel some pressure building but it should be totally comfortable.” It is also a psychological boost for the patient to be given an element of control rather than lying there and being utterly helpless. “Let me know if you need me to stop at any stage or if you are not happy in any way. Stop me if you need to take a breath or if you are feeling any pain.”

    There are some fantastic oral surgeons posting on social media: @bloodytoothguy @pnwoms to name a few. Their video content hopefully is demystifying oral surgery and leads more dentists into learning a dental discipline that many avoid. Watching videos, however, does not make you an oral surgeon and the importance of hands-on courses and mentoring are critical. This is something I am hoping to address by teaming up with an old hospital colleague and teaching hands-on oral surgery.

    Like many disciplines in dentistry, oral surgery requires a combination of skill, empathy and an ability to communicate. Whilst being empathetic is important, it is also of little use if you end up hacking that carious root out and leaving behind a bloody mess. When extracting a tooth, I like to communicate to the patient that the goal is to remove the whole tooth comfortably and in a way that will give them as smooth a recovery as possible.

    Is it possible that oral surgery can help grow your practice? Social media is currently awash with all the sexy treatments such as alignment, bleaching and bonding, the beautiful smile makeovers and the mediocre! Naturally, people like seeing these and it undoubtedly drives patients to your practice. But I have often been told that dental surgery is not a practice builder because patients do not enjoy the experience. This is an assertion I don’t wholly buy into. Whilst there is always going to be the patient who will make the speediest of escapes, I also have many patients who are full of smiles (somewhat lopsided granted) and gratitude that their extraction was much easier than expected. I am not so naive or arrogant to think that all my patients enjoy their extractions, but at the very least ensuring they do not have an unpleasant experience is an achievable goal.

    Another stereotype I have heard often is that oral surgeons (and implantologists) are often arrogant and on a testosterone fueled joyride. Not exactly a glowing report and certainly does not consider the increasing number of excellent female surgeons. It is certainly not a reputation I am happy to perpetuate. It all starts with treating patients with a level of humanity and not by “ripping their head off.”

     

    About the Author

    Dr. Joe McEnhill qualified from Queen's University, Belfast, in 2000. He then relocated to Manchester to continue his education within the primary care field. After developing an interest in dental surgery, he joined a leading Manchester maxillofacial unit enabling him to participate in major reconstructive surgery, notably by employing dental implants.

     

    Dr. McEnhill gained his Membership of the Faculty of Dental Surgery, Royal College of Surgeons in Edinburgh. He returned to his native Enniskillen in 2005 to take up a position in his family practice. He has continued with his postgraduate training achieving a Diploma in Implant Dentistry in addition to an advanced certificate representing his bone grafting capability. This was awarded by the Royal College of Surgeons in England and is considered to be the gold standard. As recognition of the high standard of treatment, he was awarded the Best Young Dentist in Northern Ireland 2011. In 2017 he was privileged to be inducted as a Fellow of the International College of Dentistry as recognition of his philanthropic endeavours.

     

    Not one to sit still, Dr. McEnhill took the 2020 lockdown as an opportunity to add further strings to his bow and he successfully gained his Diploma of Membership of Advanced General Dental Surgery from the Royal College of Surgeons in Edinburgh. He will now take up a position as examiner for the College.

     

    Dr. McEnhill now leads restorative evenings to help mentor referring dentists with both surgical and implant dentistry. Whether they are interested in the latest developments or if they want hands-on training, Dr. McEnhill is available to give advice, guidance or a helping hand. He also runs an Oral Surgery Masterclass along with a colleague to help improve the surgical capabilities of younger and older dentists. Looking to the future, Dr. McEnhill is working on a community-based website that will offer a series of online courses for GDP's. Keep your eye out for Dental Speakeasy.

     

    Follow Dr. Joe McEnhill on Instagram: @joemcenhilldentistry.

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    This Will Feel Like I’m Ripping Your Head Off
    Dr. Joe McEnhill

    Language can be romantic, evocative, and flowery, or it can be brutal, ugly, and sometimes terrifying. It can give someone butterflies or lead to utter devastation and abject misery. One’s use of language can give patients an impression of an approachable and trustworthy person or a cold and arrogant clinician. Your choice of words can close a treatment plan, or you may never see that patient again. Naturally, this translates into the bottom line of your business and so it’s worth paying attention to the way we communicate with patients.

    As dentists we invest a lot of time, money and energy developing skills and use a language that can mystify our patients. And it’s easy to speak jargon! How many times have we seen patient’s eyes begin to glaze over or they turn around to the dental nurse and asks them what they think? It is, of course, important to make a connection with a patient on their first visit. Establishing rapport goes hand in hand with trust and is of paramount importance if you hope your patient will accept your proposal. It shouldn’t be a sales pitch on fixing teeth if you hope to close the deal! Who gets excited about the prospect of getting nice new composite fillings? The patient is buying the result, not the treatment which is an important distinction.

    You cannot underestimate the value of spending a few moments talking to the person in front of you. Perhaps avoid viewing them as your next cash cow, or a method to pay for your family vacation. Finding out a few pertinent facts about Fred or Sue helps them engage with you. How many kids have they got or what interests do they have? Then, importantly, write this on their notes to remind you for the next time. From the minute they are out the door, that pertinent fact I just learned has departed out my other ear! Imagine the legend you will be when in six months you ask Roger how he got on at his cup final. Some people are brilliant at remembering these little details, but I need prompting. The psychology of a person plays a large part, and we can talk about neuro-linguistic programming, or Freud’s psychoanalytical theories. But whilst understanding a person’s mind can be of value, simply being nice and having empathy goes a long way too.


    I remember my wife’s bridesmaid recounting a story of her visit to the oral surgeon to get her wisdom teeth removed. I remember her anecdote being both horrific and hilarious in equal measure. As she was lying there feeling numb and ready to begin the procedure, her oral surgeon started by saying, “this will feel a bit like I am ripping your head off.” Perhaps there was an element of poetic license on the part of my friend, but she was never one for exaggeration. It is jaw dropping really. On what planet would this be considered an appropriate way to put anyone at ease, but it did make me laugh. I do sometimes enjoy schadenfreude, don’t judge!


    I really do not think that such dramatic and inflammatory language should ever be used if you are hoping to have a relaxed cooperative patient. I could imagine a few making a run for it if they were told this! It is a rare patient who is not apprehensive in some form or fashion at the prospect of a dental extraction, never mind a wisdom tooth. So, I will always begin by “gently wobbling the tooth to check movement and anesthesia. You will feel some pressure building but it should be totally comfortable.” It is also a psychological boost for the patient to be given an element of control rather than lying there and being utterly helpless. “Let me know if you need me to stop at any stage or if you are not happy in any way. Stop me if you need to take a breath or if you are feeling any pain.”

    There are some fantastic oral surgeons posting on social media: @bloodytoothguy @pnwoms to name a few. Their video content hopefully is demystifying oral surgery and leads more dentists into learning a dental discipline that many avoid. Watching videos, however, does not make you an oral surgeon and the importance of hands-on courses and mentoring are critical. This is something I am hoping to address by teaming up with an old hospital colleague and teaching hands-on oral surgery.

    Like many disciplines in dentistry, oral surgery requires a combination of skill, empathy and an ability to communicate. Whilst being empathetic is important, it is also of little use if you end up hacking that carious root out and leaving behind a bloody mess. When extracting a tooth, I like to communicate to the patient that the goal is to remove the whole tooth comfortably and in a way that will give them as smooth a recovery as possible.

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    Another stereotype I have heard often is that oral surgeons (and implantologists) are often arrogant and on a testosterone fueled joyride. Not exactly a glowing report and certainly does not consider the increasing number of excellent female surgeons. It is certainly not a reputation I am happy to perpetuate. It all starts with treating patients with a level of humanity and not by “ripping their head off.”

     

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    Dr. Joe McEnhill qualified from Queen's University, Belfast, in 2000. He then relocated to Manchester to continue his education within the primary care field. After developing an interest in dental surgery, he joined a leading Manchester maxillofacial unit enabling him to participate in major reconstructive surgery, notably by employing dental implants.

     

    Dr. McEnhill gained his Membership of the Faculty of Dental Surgery, Royal College of Surgeons in Edinburgh. He returned to his native Enniskillen in 2005 to take up a position in his family practice. He has continued with his postgraduate training achieving a Diploma in Implant Dentistry in addition to an advanced certificate representing his bone grafting capability. This was awarded by the Royal College of Surgeons in England and is considered to be the gold standard. As recognition of the high standard of treatment, he was awarded the Best Young Dentist in Northern Ireland 2011. In 2017 he was privileged to be inducted as a Fellow of the International College of Dentistry as recognition of his philanthropic endeavours.

     

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